Friday 31 January 2020

Isa Pantami Angers Muslims At FUT Minna

Dr Isa Pantami

Renowned cleric and Minister for Communication and Digital Economy, Dr Isa Ali Ibrahim Pantami, left thousands of Muslims at the Jum’at Masjid of the Federal University of Technology Minna Niger state disheartened on Friday 31st January.  

Tuesday 28 January 2020

MISCONCEPTION 17: Islamic Polygyny Is Not Possible

A happy polygynous home
Points:

  • Polygyny Belittles Women
  • Discriminatory: Why Can’t Women Have Multiple Husbands?
  • The Qur’an Disapproves of it


The Problem

Polygamy is a generic word which describes the setting in which an individual has more than one spouse. 

When a man has more than one wife, the setting is called polygyny while a setting in which a woman has more than one husband is called polyandry. ‘Polygyny’ is what is permissible in Islam, polyandry is an iniquity. 

The west has been able to sell the anti-polygyny ideology to some parts of the Muslim world. 

Polygyny was abolished in Turkey by the atheist, Kamal Ataturk in 1926, in 1956, the Tunisian government announced a ban on polygyny and in 2008 the Kurdistan region in Iraq did the same. 

The United Nations Human Rights Committee in 2000 reported that polygamy violates the International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights (ICCPR), according to the committee members,  there is lack of "equality of treatment with regard to the right to marry". In summary, it meant that polygamy, restricted to polygyny in practice, disregards the dignity of women and should be declared illegal.

Islamophobes have never ceased castigating Islam for permitting and even encouraging polygyny and they often the conviction that they have an axe to grind. Let’s examine the veracity of the points they raise.

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Polygyny Belittles Women

The idea is that one man having more than one woman to himself commonizes the womenfolk. Proponents of this idea always fail on reality check. Even though researchers believe there are slightly more men in the world than women, most countries in the world have more women than men. In America, there are 6. 5 million more women than men, in Russia it is 10.7 million, in France it is 1.7 million. The same trend is found in so many other countries. So many factors amount to a larger female population of women than men. Some of the are violence, war, suicide and dangerous lifestyles.

If you have a country of 10 people, 6 of them are likely to be women. If 4 men marry 4 women, what happens to the excess 2 women?

Countries across the globe are beginning the see the vacuity in criminalizing polygyny and breaking with precedent.

On December 29th 2018, Guinea in Africa legalized polygyny, on October 22nd 2019 Kenya legalized polygyny and on February 11th 2018 the Tanzanian President, John Magufuli, begged men in his country to marry multiples wives. 

He said in a speech, “Our women are crying every day due to lack of men to marry and support them economically hence they engage in prostitution. So please try to work hard and be productive so that you can help our women by marrying two or more wives provided you are able to provide for their basic needs".

Even non Muslim women in the West are seeing the fecundity of polygyny. Svetlana Peshkova is quoted to have said, “If some people condemn polygynous marriages it is because of imperialist and colonialist attitudes toward Muslim women who have for a long time been considered unable to articulate their own desires. If indeed they desire to enter into such marriages this should be up to them and articulated on their own terms.”

In January 2019, women in Tunisia started a protest on social media calling on the government to lift the ban on polygyny as the country is witnessing an explosion in the spinster population. 

To save face, westerners come up with a host of ‘solutions’.

(i) Lesbianism

This has been the most song solution of the west, if the 2 women cannot get husbands, why don’t they marry themselves? To sell this ‘solution’ the west has continued to bully the world’s countries into legalizing homosexuality. The west is indirectly saying, ‘every woman should rehearse being a lesbian, she might become one full time’. How many of the world’s women are attracted to other women?

(ii) Transgender

The west has also created an avenue to make it easier for lesbians to attract partners. There are now scientific procedures that can enable women develop masculine features.

(iii) Fornication

To enable women without husbands have a sex life, western nations have totally decriminalized fornication. It is totally okay for a man to sleep with twenty women simultaneously but, if a man gets married to two women concomitantly, he is arrested for bigamy (5 year jail term in America).

(iv) Prostitution

The UN General Assembly in 1949 adopted a convention that stated that "prostitution and the accompanying evil of the traffic in persons for the purpose of prostitution are incompatible with the dignity and worth of the human person"  requiring all signatory countries to punish all stake holders in prostitution and to abolish all special treatments or registration of prostitutes. 

But to our surprise, in January 2009, the convention was accepted by just 95 member nations while the other 97 member nations refused to formally accept it. These nations included: Germany, the Netherlands, the United Kingdom and the United States (the champions of women’s rights). This event meant that many countries across the globe legalized prostitution. 

This is a ‘perfectly’ worked plan. Women often need bread winners, but how do you get a bread winner without a husband? Simple, ‘allow women roam the streets in search of daily bread winners’. In the Netherlands, 1 in 35 women is a prostitute. If you cannot enjoy sex and get bread as a wife, why not get it as a prostitute?

(v) Incest

There is no limit to the extent non Muslims will go to justify their stand against Islamic law. Incest is defined by the Macmillan Advanced Learners Dictionary as: sexual activity between people who are closely related, such as a parent and a child or a brother and sister.

This abominous act is legal in countries like Spain, France, Belgium, parts of America and many other countries.

‘As a woman, if you can’t get a husband have sex with your brother or father’.

This begs the question, how do these western ‘solutions’ protect the honour and dignity of women? Most women will prefer to be a wife than to be a mistress, a prostitute or a lesbian. 

Discriminatory: Why Can’t Women Have Multiple Husbands?

(i) Health

Even science has confirmed the fact that women were fashioned to be monogamous. Scientists have attributed cervical cancer to women having more than one ‘sexual partner’. Polyandry used to be a common practice among women in India before the 21st century but, with enlightenment and awareness, the practice has become an anachronism.

(ii) Life Expectancy

Even in cases where the woman does not come down with one form of cancer or the other, her life will still be endangered. If a woman has two husbands, how many times would she be having sex in a week and for how long? This is under the assumption that both husbands love her genuinely. 

How many children would she have and at what interval? Will she survive till menopause? Will she ever maintain a career? 

We see that a woman who does not die due to multiple husbands will still live a life of illness and pain.

(iii) Paternity of Children

How could we have determined the paternity of a child born to a woman with two husbands 1, 400 years ago? Paternity test was invented in the 1920s so yes, the paternity of children can be determined with ease in this era. 

However, what happens in a scenario where a particular husband wins consecutive paternity wars? That could be a causus belli that could put the woman in a precarious situation.

The Qur’an Disapproves of it

Some non Muslims have inanely alleged that polygyny is a crime even by Islamic standards. 

They bring up the verse of the Qur’an where Allah (SWT) says: “And you will never be able to be equal in feeling between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. So do not incline completely toward one and leave another hanging. And if you amend your affairs and fear Allah - then indeed, Allah is ever Forgiving and Merciful.” Suratul Nisa (4:129)

In the beginning of this verse, Allah cautions Muslim men that they will always be apt to loving one wife more than another. Allah the Creator says it is in the nature of man. This can also be seen in the love some parents particularly have for a particular child. 

Still in the said verse, Allah makes no mention of any criminality in taking multiple wives rather; Allah gives advice on what is expected of polygynous men. This verse clearly does not mean what the ignorant wants to make the world believe.

In the same chapter containing the above mentioned verse, Allah Himself gives a big shinning and glowing green light for polygyny.

“And if you fear that you will not deal justly with the orphan girls, then marry those that please you of other women, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one or those your right hand possesses. That is more suitable that you may not incline to injustice.” Suratul Nisa (4:3)

Allah’s final Messenger and the one to whom the Qur’an was sent, Muhammad (SAW), was polygynous. Very few among the companions of Muhammad (SAW) had only one wife albeit it not being a crime.

The Islamic scriptures and Islamic history prove that polygyny is an integral part of Islam hence, this point is out rightly invalid.

It is vivid enough that Islam has always been right to sanction polygyny and those who stand against polygyny do so not for reasons supported by rational thinking but, by the mare desire to rebel against Allah through moral corruption.

Polygyny is an option and will forever remain an option.

Monday 27 January 2020

Borno: Suicide Bombers Kill 5 In Mosque

Nigerian map
At least 5 people were killed and 9 others left with fatal injuries   after two bombings targeted a Masjid in Gwoza town in Borno state northeastern Nigeria. 

Media reports have it that one of two teenage girls wearing explosives ran into the Masjid when Fajr (early morning prayer) was being observed on Sunday. The other one detonated her vest around the Masjid. It has been categorized a suicide bombing. 

There has been debate as to how an individual could witness a suicide bombing and live to tell the tale. No entity has claimed responsibility for the attack even though Boko Haram and its affiliates have carried similar attacks in the past.

Boko Haram which is acclaimed to be the deadliest terror group in sub-Saharan Africa has so far killed over 20, 000 people and displaced millions of others in Nigeria.

The group is said to have around 15, 000 militants within its ranks, it was founded by Mohammed Yusuf in 2002 and is currently led by Abubakar Shekau whose death has been announced several times by two Nigerian administrations.

Muhammadu Buhari became the President of Nigeria in 2015 with a major promise to restore security especially in the Muslim north of the country. 

However, after four years in office and over N2.3 trillion (two trillion naira) spent, insecurity has remained endemic in the region.

Tuesday 21 January 2020

Boko Haram: Soldiers Abandon Villages in Borno

APC campaign bill board
Reports from residents in parts of Borno state in the weekend  alleged that security personnel posted to the area have left them to the mercy of Boko Haram. 

The area which is around Damaturu road is the same area in which security forces were caught extorting motorists on the highway on 6th January. 

The extortion of between N500 to N1000 was done under the pretext that the travelers did not have National ID cards. 

The Borno state governor, Babagana Umara Zulum, reported the incident to the Nigerian army theater commander however, the message was coldly received. 

It is believed that the abandonment of the people by the army is intended to serve as a punishment for the people and the governor. 

The abandonment has seen renewed Boko Haram attacks on the communities in the region; this has led to hundreds of residents to flee their homes for Maiduguri (the state capital) for safety.

Boko Haram which is acclaimed to be the deadliest terror group in sub-Saharan Africa has so far killed over 20, 000 people and displaced millions of others in Nigeria.

The group is said to have around 15, 000 militants within its ranks, it was founded by Mohammed Yusuf in 2002 and is currently led by Abubakar Shekau whose death has been announced several times by two Nigerian administrations.

Muhammadu Buhari became President of Nigeria in 2015 with a major promise to bring security to the country by ending the Boko Haram menace; it is a promise that hasn’t been fulfilled nearly five years later.

Niger state: Shari'ah Judges Get 20 New Vehicles


Niger state governor (Abubakar Sani Bello)
The Niger state government has disbursed 46 vehicles to judges in the Niger state judiciary; this was made known by the Chief Registrar of the state, Barrister Hamza Muazu. 

The registrar disclosed that 20 of the vehicles went to Shari’ah court judges while 26 went to Magistrate court judges. 

Boko Haram Executes CAN Chairman

APC campaign poster

Reports have confirmed that the Boko Haram terror group has  executed a chairman of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) in Adamawa state on Monday. 

The chairman, Rev. Lawan Andimi, was abducted in the Michika area of the state early this year, his abductors are said to have demanded a ransom from the Adamawa state government. 

Saturday 18 January 2020

Islamophobia: Ahmad Deedat's Son Martyred in South Africa

Late Yusuf Deedat
The son of Muslim great, Sheikh Ahmad Deedat, Yusuf Deedat, has  died of wounds he sustained after an attack on Wednesday 16th January. 

Reports had it that 65 year old Yusuf Deedat was shot in the head outside a court room in Verulam South Africa while in the company of his wife. The

Monday 13 January 2020

The Muslim Who Invented the Flush Mechanism

Modern day toilet

Humans in the past did not think of toilets as it was very convenient  to simply take a stroll into the bushes to ease oneself. Then a time came when people felt the need to have designated areas close by for the purpose of relieving themselves, toilets were born. 

Sunday 12 January 2020

Nigeria: Security Personnel Impregnating Teenage Girls

A young girl abandoned with a baby

For the first time ever, the Nigerian government has formally  accused the Nigerian armed forces of sexual perversion that targets innocent teenage girls. 

The Institute for Peace and Conflict Resolution which is under the Ministry of Foreign

Sawda bint Zam'a: The Prophet's African Wife

Sawda
Her name is Sawdah bint Zam’a, her father was Zam’a ibn Qays  ibn Abdush-Shams ibn Abdi Widdi ibn Nasr ibn Malik ibn Hasl ibn Amir ibn Lu'ay (the Qurayshi) and her mother was Ash-Shamoos bint Qays ibn Zayd of Bani Adi ibn An-Najjar from Khazraj. 

Sawda bint Zam'a was born about 25 years before the Hijra and she was among the eight people of Banu Amir who left everything and migrated to Abyssinia for the sake of their religion. She was a simpatico tall and large black-skinned woman, with a jolly and affable disposition. 

She first married her cousin, as-Sakran ibn Amr, the brother of Suhail ibn Amr. From her husband, as-Sakran, she had one son, Abdur Rahman ibn Sakran, who was martyred in the Battle of Jalula in against the Persians in the reign of Umar ibn Khattab.

Sawda was an early convert to Islam and it was by her persuasion that her husband embraced Islam. On the second emigration to Abyssinia, Sawdah had accompanied her husband to escape the persecution of Quraysh and maintain their faith in Islam. 

Not long after they settled in Abyssinia and felt safe, they heard that the pagans had concluded a truce with the Muslims and agreed to let them practice their religion freely. The Muslims were very happy and decided to return to their homes. But when they reached Makkah, they were shocked by the awful reality. The pagans were bitterer in their enmity towards the Muslims than ever and their cruelty had attained new heights.

Sawdah's husband died on the way to Makkah and left her in a terrible state of destitution. After the death of Khadijah, the Sahaba felt the sorrow and grief of Muhammad (SAW) and they desired for him to marry and relieve himself from his solitude. 

When mourning period of Khadijah was over, Khawlah bint Hakeem, the wife of Uthman ibn Math'un, went to him and said: "O Prophet of Allah! I see you feel the loss of Khadijah."; "Yes," he said. "She was both mother and housewife". 

Khawlah suggested that he should marry and she offered to find him a bride. Muhammad (SAW) said, "Who could be that bride?" Khawlah suggested Aisha bint Abu Bakr. But Aisha was still very young so he got engaged to her and left her in her parent’s house till she matured. 

Khawlah and the other Companions didn't want a delayed marriage; they wanted someone to console and help him in take care of his children, especially in those days of hardship. Khawlah mentioned Sawdah bint Zam'a. 

Sawda was relatively old, wasn’t considered among the most beautiful of women and wasn’t from a wealthy family. Moreover her father and brother were still pagans at the time. Her brother, Malik bin Zama'a, later embraced Islam. 

At the mentioning of Sawda by Khawlah, the Prophet (SAW) asked Khawlah to propose on his behalf. Khawlah went to Sawdah and said: "Allah has blessed you, Prophet Muhammad sent me to ask for your hand". 

Sawdah was flummoxed and with trembling voice she said: “I love that, but go and ask my father.” When the father heard the news he was very happy and said: “This is a suitable match; Muhammad is an honorable and compatible person. Would you like me to wed you to him?" Sawdah replied with just one word, "Yes." 

Stories of the proposal spread around Makkah, many could not believe their ears. 'How could an old widow without beauty and wealth succeed the noble and beautiful Khadijah?' They thought. The Prophet (SAW) married Sawdah in Makkah in Ramadan in the tenth year of his Prophethood. It is believed that both Muhammad (SAW) and Sawda were 50 years old when they got married. 

From the beginning, Sawda knew that the Prophet (SAW) married her out of compassion and not out of desire and she knew that no one else could give her a more respectable shelter than the great Prophet (SAW). 

Prophet Muhammad (SAW) liked the remarks she sometimes made. Once she told him, “I have prayed standing behind you, O' Prophet of Allah, and you made me kneel so long that I held my nose fearing that it will bleed". The Prophet (SAW) laughed and Sawdah was very happy. 

Sawda remained in charge of the Prophet's house for three years till Aisha arrived. Then she gave her the first place and did her best to comfort and assist the young bride. Other wives with beauty, nobility and prestige came to the house of the Prophet (SAW) but, Sawdah did not hesitate to favor Aisha without showing any apathy for the other wives. 

When every wife settled in her own apartment, Sawdah felt she had no right to spend her night with Muhammad (SAW) since young and beautiful wives were now around. The Prophet (SAW) felt bad about her emotional deprivation and was kind enough not to mention anything that could hurt her feelings. 

The Prophet (SAW) suggested divorce to free her from her duties and spare her the pain. Sawdah was aghast at hearing this, she was silent for a moment then she summoned courage and said to him, "Keep me please; I am not a selfish wife, but I wish to see Allah recognizing me as your wife on the Day of Judgment". She added gently, "Keep me, O' Prophet of Allah, and I will donate my night to Aisha as I do not demand that which women desire". 

The Prophet (SAW) kept her in his house and treated her with honor, dignity and respect. 

When Sawda performed pilgrimage with the Prophet (SAW), he allowed her to precede the people to Muzdalifah because of her heavy weight and her age. Aisha said: "I wish I had asked the Prophet to allow me to go to Muzdalifah like Sawdah did, so that I could pray Fajr in Mina before the people arrive.” 

After the demise of Muhammad (SAW), Sawda received a gift of money, which she spent on charity. Muawiyah bin Abu Sufyan bought her house in Medina for 180,000 dirhams. Sawda, Aisha, Hafsa and Safiya always remained very close. 

Also, after the demise of the Prophet (SAW), Sawda vowed not to go for Hajj or Umrah. She said: "I have performed my Hajj and Umrah so now it is time to stay home as Allah commanded me.” She meant what Allah Says in the Qur'an: “And abide in your houses and do not display yourselves as was the display of the former times of ignorance. And establish prayer and give zakah and obey Allah and His Messenger. Allah intends only to remove from you the impurity of sin, O people of the Prophet's household, and to purify you with extensive purification.” Suratul Ahzab (33: 33)

Sawda bint Zam’a passed away in the reign of Mu`awiyah ibn Abu Sufiyan in 54 A.H. in Madinah. She is believed to have been around 80 years old at the time of her passing and she was the third to the last wife of Muhammad (SAW) to pass away.

Aisha mourned Sawdah and said: "No woman is more beloved to me than Sawdah, whose shoes I would rather be in than others." 

Aisha never forgot that Sawdah donated her night with the Prophet (SAW) to her.

The Mother of the Faithful, Sawda bint Zam’a was buried in the famous cemetery, Janatul al-Baqee, in Madinah. May Allah be pleased with her and may He please her.

LESSONS

  • Zero Racism: Islam has zero tolerance for racism. Muhammad (SAW) married a black woman, Sawda bint Zam’a.
  • Marriage proposals: It might not be out rightly called haram but, it is not the Islamic formula for men to propose directly to a woman. It is best to do this through a third party most suitably another woman or a relative of the woman. Muhammad (SAW) proposed to Sawda bint Zam’a through Khawlah bint Hakim.
  • Noble Character: Sawda’s father, Zam’a, was not a Muslim at the time Muhammad (SAW) proposed to her yet, he was thrilled at the thought of being an in-law to the Prophet (SAW). Muhammad (SAW) had such a noble character that even disbelievers looked forward to having close ties with him.
  • Compassion: Muhammad (SAW) was always thinking of ways to comfort his community and every single one of its members. He (SAW) heard of the poignant situation Sawda was in and he took it upon himself to bring her comfort by bringing her into his household.
  • The Day of Judgment: The companions of Muhammad (SAW) always had their thoughts on their fate on the Day of Accountability. Sawda didn’t want to remain a wife of the Prophet (SAW) for worldly benefits; she cared about having an elevated status in the sight of Allah by being resurrected as one of the wives of Muhammad (SAW).

Friday 10 January 2020

Courage and Reliance on Allah

Courage photo
The word courage has a number of synonyms some of which are bravery and fortitude. To avoid getting our wires crossed, let us work with a generally accepted definition of the word 'courage'.

Definition of courage: Mental or moral strength to venture, persevere, and withstand danger, fear, or difficulty.


We live in an era where cowardice has been decorated as the new courage. The courageous ones are being demonized by their own brothers who prefer the life of this world over service to Allah.

‘Reliance on Allah’ will be discussed in-depth in another piece in sha Allah.

There will always be times you will face powerful enemies. Sometimes, your friends, brothers and those who are supposed to stand by you will desert you; times when you will have no choice but to stand alone.

Courage is a desirable quality; it was a basic feature of all Prophets and Messengers of Allah from Ibrahim to Musa down to Muhammad (SAW).

Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (SAW) as saying: “A strong believer is better and is more lovable to Allah than a weak believer, and there is good in everyone, (but) cherish that which gives you benefit (in the Hereafter) and seek help from Allah and do not lose heart, and if anything (in the form of trouble) comes to you, don't say: If I had not done that, it would not have happened so and so, but say: Allah did that what He had ordained to do and your" if" opens the (gate) for the Satan.”

It should be noted that being firm on evil is not courage, it is rebellion. Courage could be futile if Allah is taken out of the equation; conversely, a courageous person operates within the boundaries of reasoning as indicated by Allah Himself.

“Fight in the way of Allah those who fight you, but do not transgress. Verily, Allah does not love transgressors.” Suratul Baqarah (2:190)

Times to Show Courage

Just a few will be touched here.

1. Standing for justice

A community where injustice prevails is the one in which courageous people are scanty. Several statements of Muhammad (SAW) teach that a Muslim is not a trouble seeker albeit, always ready to fight for justice.

“O people, do not desire to meet the enemy, but rather ask Allah for safety. If you meet your enemy in battle, be patient and know that Paradise is under the shade of swords.” (Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī)

“Do not wish to meet the enemy, but if you meet them, be steadfast.” (Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī)

“Verily, after me there will be conflicts or affairs, so if you are able to end them in peace, then do so.” (Musnad Aḥmad)

2. Facing oppression

It was narrated from Tariq bin Shihab that: a man asked the Prophet (SAW), when he had put his leg in the stirrup (ready to proceed for battle), “Which kind of Jihad is best?” He (SAW) said: “a word of truth spoken before an unjust rulers.”

Muhammad (SAW) said, "The master of martyrs (sayyid al-shuhada) is Hamza, and a man who stands up to a tyrant ruler and gives him advice. And so the ruler kills him".

We see real life courage from non Prophets. The one I have falling in love with is the story of Abdullah bin Hudhaifa on what happened when he was captured by the Byzantine forces.

The Byzantine emperor Heraclius looked at Abdullah for a long time. Suddenly he said, "I shall make a proposal to you. I suggest that you join our faith. If you do this, you will be set free and I shall grant you a safe refuge." Abdullah replied him, "Death is preferable to me a thousand times to what you ask me to do." The emperor said, "I see that you are a bold man. However, if you respond positively to what I propose to you, I will give you a share in my authority and swear you in as my aide." The prisoner, Abdullah, shackled in his chains, smiled and said, "By Allah, if you give me all that you possess and all that the Arabs have in exchange for giving up the religion of Muhammad, I shall not do so." The emperor said, "Then I shall kill you" and Abdullah followed up, “Do what you want".

3. In difficult situations

There have been stories of people, young and old, turning to suicide when things go awry. ‘Reasons’ range from failed exams, to heart breaks to financial hardship. Consciousness of Allah’s might takes away such thoughts from the heart of a servant. No surprise, of all groups of people on earth, Muslims have the lowest rate of suicide.

“And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient. Who, when disaster strikes them, say, "Indeed we belong to Allah, and indeed to Him we will return." Suratul Baqarah (2:155-156)

4. Commanding justice at home

This is a topic that needs to be discussed at length. Acts of injustice take place in homes right under the noses of heads of families; the men. We have wives being maltreated by other wives in the home, younger children being bullied by older siblings and mothers oppressing their step-children. These happen in homes where the head lacks the courage to uphold justice. Should these continue unabated, members of the family could turn to sinful acts in search of justice. Wives could resort to witchcraft and young children to gang violence destroying their lives in this world and the next.

This could be the reason Allah (SWT) says in the Glorious Qur’an:

“O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones, over which are [appointed] angels, harsh and severe; they do not disobey Allah in what He commands them but do what they are commanded.” Suratul Tahreem (66:6)

Reliance on Allah

Allah is with the righteous

The evil ones might have the numbers, connections and superior military might but, victory lies with Allah and He has promised this to the believers.

“Indeed, Allah is with those who fear Him and those who are doers of good.” 
Suratul Nahl (16:128)

Allah first

Do not seek strength from men, do not seek the approval of men and do not be deterred by the calumny of men. In the time of Muhammad (SAW), the hypocrites tried to weaken the resolve of Muslims but the deep faith of the Muslims gave them immunity against the ploys.

Those to whom hypocrites said, "Indeed, the people have gathered against you, so fear them." But it [merely] increased them in faith, and they said, "Sufficient for us is Allah, and [He is] the best Disposer of affairs." Suratul Ali Imran (3:173)

Supplicate to Allah

Muhammad (SAW) taught the believers words to say to derive courage and keep cowardice at bay.

Du’a against cowardice: “O Allah, I take refuge in You from anxiety and sorrow, weakness and laziness, miserliness and cowardice, the burden of debts and from being over powered by men.”

This du'a can be found in Hisnul Muslim (Fortress of a Believer)

May Allah make the reader understand this piece better than I have said it and take cowardice away from the hearts of the believers.

Wednesday 8 January 2020

Procrastination: The Evil Companion

Procrastination file photo

The English writer Edward Young, is famous for having coined the  saying, "Procrastination is the thief of time".

Before we commence the discussion, it would be nice to properly understand what this word means to avoid any confusion.

Definition: Procrastination is the avoidance of doing a task that needs to be accomplished by a certain deadline. It could be further stated as a habitual or intentional delay of starting or finishing a task despite knowing it might have negative consequences.

Many at times we put important things off because we feel they are not so pertinent, this is a tell-tale sign of laziness. It is a chain reaction, the more we procrastinate, the lazier we become.

An example if when some people cling to the Ayat and Ahadith about Allah's Forgiveness and Mercy, and regard it as an excuse for abandoning the obligatory acts and doing the prohibited ones. They use this to procrastinate on doing the right thing. They might mischievously claim that they do that out of their thinking positively about Allah or that Allah considers only the hearts of people.

These are thoughts manufactured by shaitan. Hoping and thinking positively of Allah should be accompanied by exerting efforts and working hard to please Him.

Allah says: Say, "I am only a man like you, to whom has been revealed that your god is one God. So whoever would hope for the meeting with his Lord - let him do righteous work and not associate in the worship of his Lord anyone." Suratul Kahf (18:110)

Yahya ibn Mu`adh said: “As for me, the greatest form of delusion is persisting in committing sins hoping for forgiveness without repentance, expecting being closer to Allah without performing acts of obedience, waiting for the rewards of Paradise while planting the seeds of sins in Hellfire, seeking Paradise by committing sins, waiting for rewards without working, hoping for Allah's reward without abiding by Allah's Commands.”


The Evil of Procrastination


The Qur'an mentions repeatedly the danger of procrastination:

“Until, when death comes to one of them, he says: “My Lord! Send me back so that I may do good in that which I have left behind” Suratul Muminun (23:99-100).

Ibn Abbas reported: The Messenger of Allah (SAW) said, “Take advantage of five before five: your youth before your old age, your health before your illness, your riches before your poverty, your free time before your work, and your life before your death.” Source: Shu’ab al-Imān 9575

The scholars and pious predecessors warned Muslims vehemently against procrastination.

Ibn Rajab said: "The believer should embark on doing good deeds before being unable to do them due to illness or death. Also, they may be afflicted with anything with which no good deed is accepted." (Jami` Al-`Ulum wal Hikam)

Ibn Mubarak narrated: "We were informed that the majority of the inhabitants of Hellfire say: How much procrastination is awful!"


What Causes Procrastination?


A number of things could cause this mental disease; some of them will be discussed.

1. Being engrossed with worldly pleasures

Allah in His infinite Wisdom warned Muslims concerning distractions in worldly life. When we get so comfortable with the worldly life, it often leads to complacency which then ends in procrastination.

“O you who have believed, let not your wealth and your children divert you from remembrance of Allah. And whoever does that - then those are the losers.” Suratul Munafiqun (69:9)

2. Forgetfulness

Some people often have bright ideas on ways to please Allah, but the human weakness of forgetfulness frequently defeats them. Forgetfulness is not a desirable quality.

Abu Huraira reported: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, I hear many traditions from you and I forget them.” The Prophet said, “Spread open your garment.” I spread it and then he placed something from his hand into it, saying, “Wrap it.” I wrapped it around me and I never forgot a tradition ever again. Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 3448

If there was nothing wrong with being forgetful, Muhammad (SAW) would not have made a way out for Abu Huraira.

3. Being out of touch with reality

This is similar to the first cause but a bit different. Some people have little knowledge of things happening across the world especially to Muslims. They don’t know about the Uighur Muslims in China, the Rohingya Muslims in Burma, the Palestinians, the Muslims of Central African Republic, the several famines affecting Muslims across the globe, the number of Muslims getting killed on a daily basis and so many other calamities that don’t bear repeating. 

People like this feel so comfortable with their condition that they see no urgency in striving to make the world a better place. A Muslim should always want to know the condition of his brothers and sisters wherever they might be.

Al-Nu’man ibn Bashir reported: The Messenger of Allah (SAW) said, “The parable of the believers in their affection, mercy, and compassion for each other is that of a body. When any limb aches, the whole body reacts with sleeplessness and fever.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5665, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2586


What are the Effects of Procrastination?


1. Laziness

Laziness is a mental disease that prevents the mind from reflecting and contemplating on the greatness of everything created by Allah and His graces. It also stops an individual from considering the matters that improve the stance of mankind in the life and the Hereafter. 

Laziness leads to slackening in performing the acts of obedience and the acts of worship in the way prescribed by Shari`ah. Laziness leads to bad consequences as it hiders the person from carrying out their ambitions, prevents them from performing their missions, and inhibits the beneficial deeds, fruitful thinking, and good endeavor. 

Allah has described it is one of the attributes of the hypocrites.

Allah says: “Indeed, the hypocrites [think to] deceive Allah, but He is deceiving them. And when they stand for prayer, they stand lazily, showing [themselves to] the people and not remembering Allah except a little” Suratul Nisa (4:142)

Even the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) would often pray, “O Allah! I seek Your protection from anxiety and grief, from incapacity and laziness, from stinginess and cowardice, and from the burden of debt and domination of people.” [Bukhari]

2. Depression

Nothing can come from missing out on opportunities than depression. A student who procrastinates on his studies will likely fail their exams. When they see their colleagues celebrating their bright results, they are drowned in sorrow.

3. Weakness of faith

Procrastination makes a believer postpone acts of worship. The fewer acts of worship you engage in and the more awkwardly you carry them out, the weaker your faith will become. In extreme cases, weakness of faith could leads to apostasy.

4. Betraying the trust of Allah

The health, wealth, abilities, status and other advantages Allah has given you are a trust from Him. We have been given these gifts not to earn us some boasting rights, but to advance the cause of Allah. If we refuse to use our God-given talents for the betterment of mankind because we keep procrastinating then, we would have betrayed the trust of Allah. It is a law of existence, evil wins when the good people do nothing.

“O you who have believed, do not betray Allah and the Messenger or betray your trusts while you know [the consequence]. And know that your properties and your children are but a trial and that Allah has with Him a great reward.” Suratul Anfal (8:27-28)

5. Losing out on the bounties of Allah

A believer postpones reciting the Qur’an, observing nawafils (either salawat or fasting), going for Jihad, visiting a sick friend; he loses the reward for these acts and this will limit his status in the sight of Allah. Al-Harith Al-Muhasiby said: "Procrastination prevents a person from doing good deeds.”

6. Delays repentance

This can be said to be the deadliest effect of procrastination. Some people are perpetual sinners, whenever they are asked, ‘when will you repent?’ they give a reason to delay. Why don’t you observe salah? They reply, I will start on Friday. It’s disheartening.

Ibn Al-Jawzy said: "Postponement in hope is a form of delusion; and there is no attribute worse than it. Except for it, you would not find any negligence. A person may indulge in sins and desires and delay repentance due to postponement in hope."


How to shun Procrastination


Spiritual Steps

1. Meditation: Occasionally seclude and isolate yourself from people.

2. Always remind yourself
  • Do you not know that in the morning of every day your lifetime becomes shorter than the previous day.
  • I may get up and die at night.

3. Get closer to Allah: The closer you are to Allah the farther away the devil.

4. Make abundant dhikr: Supplication makes things easier. Muhammad (SAW) taught us the du’a for when things seem to be getting difficult.

Allahumma laa sahala illaa maa ja’alta sahlan wa anta taj’alul-huzna itha shitta sahlan

“O Allah there is nothing that is easy except that You made it easy, and You can make this difficulty easy if You so wish to”

Physical Steps

1. Get to know why

It could be that you have genuine doubts about the necessity of the action. Meditating on the issue will help you understand why you are procrastinating on an issue thereby helping you make up your mind.

2. Start easy

Some people want achieve a great height within a rather unrealistic time frame. When you take too many things at a time, your mind will develop some apathy for that activity; procrastination will be the end result.

3. Break it down

This is related to the step above. Break down projects into segments and bits that can be mastered within a reasonable time frame. This gives you the chance to ruminate on one segment at a time.

4. Have to-do list

There are chances that other activities will try to eat into the time you have set aside for your project, having a to-do list help you stick to schedule.

5. Confide in a close friend

It sometimes helps to let a pal or buddy of yours know your battles against procrastination. That way, they will always keep you on your toes by constantly asking for feed backs on your project.

6. Set a few daily compulsory tasks

It is sometimes inevitable to have periods when focusing on your project proves difficult due to other pressing demands. However, if this continues for a long time, you will lose steam on your pursuits. You can beat this by having a few compulsory daily tasks on your project.

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